Dating
Should you sleep with your roommate?
You're crushin' on your roomie and the feeling seems mutual... But should you go there? What could happen if you become friends with benefits while you're living in the same space? Let's look at the pros and cons.
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Book review: Otherhood - Essays on being childless, childfree and child-adjacent
When you're dating, you're probably thinking mostly about how *not* to have kids, which is fair enough. What if you never have kids? Like, never ever? This new book explores the societal taboo of adulthood without children.
Community
A brief history of sex and the Olympics
With more than 10,000 fit, good-looking, top-of-their-game-in-every-way athletes gathering in Paris for the 2024 Summer Olympics, is it any wonder the Athletes' Village is a hotbed of hookups and sexy celebrations?
Dating
Top tips to up your game on - and beyond - the dating apps
HUD's resident sexpert Danielle Simpson-Baker (aka The Sexpot Therapist) gives some good advice for improving your UX on dating apps and when you're meeting people in real life.
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The Dying Art of Playlist Building
When's the last time someone made you a mixtape? (Possibly a rhetorical question since actual tapes no longer seem to exist.) Kira Carrington of Massive magazine gets nostalgic about playlists.
Dating
When is it okay to swear in front of your date?
Swearing, cursing, using foul language, dropping F-bombs in your date's presence - how soon is too soon?
Dating
Dealing with a messy breakup... When you have to work
Navigating a breakup is never easy, especially when it's unfolding against the backdrop of your professional life. HUD's People & Culture Manager Stef shares some good advice.
Dating
How to spot weaponized incompetence in someone you're dating
Are you carrying more than your share of relationship responsibility because the other person just isn't good at this sort of thing? You might be dealing with a case of weaponized incompetence.
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Why are we attracted to some people but not others?
You see someone across a crowded room, and you're instantly attracted to them. What's that all about? Our Good Girls Mikayla and Siobhan explain the science of attraction.
Community
Finding Pride, losing it, then finding it again
How do you celebrate Pride when you’re still navigating what it means to you? HUD App’s Director of Marketing, Mikayla Robinson, gets honest about Pride.
Dating
What does it mean if my pet doesn't like my date?
If your pet cat is hissing, your dog is growling, and your goldfish is swimming in the other direction every time the person you're dating is around, you should probably pay attention.
Dating
10 tips for dating as a neurodivergent human
If you're neurodivergent, you might feel like dating is just too confusing and intimidating to even attempt. Here are some tips to help you feel more comfortable looking for love.
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The V word
Guess what? You don't owe anybody your virginity. It's not a gift, a precious treasure, something you can "lose", or anything to do with your character. So what's the big deal about virginity?
Community
Pride parade prep guide
HUD's resident sexpert Danielle Simpson-Baker (aka The Sexpot Therapist) tells you what to wear, bring, and expect for your first Pride parade.
Health
5 Myths and facts about LGBTQIA+ Sexual Health
Our friends at Stigma Health debunk some myths and speak some truths about LGBTQIA+ sexual health - some of which might surprise you.
Dating
Should you use AI to write your dating app profile?
AI is everywhere, but should it be a part of your dating app profile? Is it lying if you let AI tell you what to say, or are you just using another handy tool?
Desires
Designing our dream sex toy
Our Good Girls write an open letter to the sex toy industry asking for all of our ideal sex toy dreams to come true.
The HUD Love Club
Boundaries and why you need them
Just because you're into casual, no-strings-attached dating doesn't mean you don't have boundaries. Here's why you should figure out what those boundaries are and be unapologetic about them.
Dating
What dating was like in the 90s and what we can learn from it
The fashions may be coming back, but let's hope some of the dating trends of the 90s stay put in the past. Although there are a few things we'd like to resurrect...
Desires
How to: Recreate *that* Bridgerton carriage ride scene in real life
We studied the famous carriage encounter between Colin and Penelope in meticulous, precise, thorough detail, just for the sake of educating you about how to DIY it.
The HUD Love Club
Get to know yourself this May
Did you know that this month is known as Masturbation May? It might seem silly, but this international celebration of self-pleasure has some pretty radical origins.
Dating
Things that give you the "ick" (and how to deal)
What do TikTok and Baby Reindeer have in common? A deep and uncomfortable dive into "the ick", that indefinable feeling which we've all felt from time to time about a person or scenario. That niggly feeling of "I don't like this, and I can't say why."
Desires
Fetish 101: What's wax play?
Ever dipped your fingers in warm candle wax and thought, "Ahh, that's quite nice!" Take things a step further with wax play - here's how to indulge safely.
Dating
How to: Write the perfect dating app profile
HUD's resident sexpert Danielle Simpson-Baker (aka The Sexpot Therapist) gives her top six tips for writing a dating profile that'll get you seen.
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Beginner's guide to sex toys
Let's talk about sex toys, baby! Here's how to get started and choose what's right for you.
Health
Why you need to talk to your grandparents about STIs
When you're visiting your grands at their retirement village this weekend, you might want to bring up sexually transmitted infections (STIs). Our friends at Stigma Health explain why.
Dating
Workplace hookups: Yay or nay?
Should you ever date someone from work? HUD App’s People & Culture Manager Stef has some good advice.
Dating
What your zombie apocalypse plan says about your dating personality
How you'd deal with hordes of the undead says a lot about how you might approach your dating life - and may reveal some things you didn't know about yourself.
Dating
How to: Hook up at a festival
A music fest is the perfect place for a casual date. Here are three quick tips for making the most of the opportunity.
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Figuring out what you're into in the bedroom
What you find kinky is subjective, but we guarantee that more people are doing interesting (ahem) things in the bedroom than you might realize. Here's how to figure out what you're into.
Dating
Mind your manners when you're online messaging
Five tips for improving how you come across in someone's DMs.
Dating
6 things to do before a first date
"Be prepared" is a motto that'll set you up for a good time.
Health
Educate yourself about STIs
Our friends at Stigma Health tell you everything you need to know – but were too afraid to ask – about Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs).
Dating
Coffee, commute, connections
Why your morning commute is the perfect time to suss out your next hookup.
The HUD Love Club
How the hell do you make friends as an adult?
Post-school and in the real world, how do you actually meet people to hang out with?
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Desires
Fetish 101: What's a foot fetish?
People make jokes about selling foot pics on the internet, but honestly, foot fetish isn’t that uncommon – or even that unusual of a fetish. Here’s the lowdown on foot fetish.
Dating
Hey, who are you calling "slut"?
HUD’s resident sexpert Danielle Simpson-Baker (aka The Sexpot Therapist) says it's time to shut down the shame that comes with being called a slut.
Dating
Three key ingredients for a good date
Do you give up on dates before you've even finished your first drink? This might help.
Dating
Help! I've caught feels for my FWB
What to do when you've developed feelings for your friend with benefits.
Safety
8 ways to stay safe when you’re meeting someone in person
Staying safe online and in person is critical – and should be your first priority.
Dating
Why women should date like men
Yes, how women and men approach dating is different – here's how women can level the playing field.
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Valentine's Day: A day of love, not just lovers
This Valentine's Day, let's challenge the conventional. Let's celebrate the love that exists within every facet of our lives.
Dating
The art of a no-strings-attached Valentine's Day
Valentine's Day often conjures up images of serious commitments, grand romantic gestures, and the pressure to define relationships. But what if we told you that Valentine's Day could be equally meaningful and enjoyable without the weight of expectations?
Dating
I'm single and I'm fine, thanks
Is it ever appropriate to question why someone is single, then immediately try to fix them up with a date?
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